The Blood Circulation Perspective of Meditation

In my last blog, I mentioned that events occurring at the physical level happen beforehand at the astral or spiritual level. (The link to this previous post is http://karmasutratkos.blogspot.co.uk/2016/09/do-events-happen-first-in-spiritual.html).

I also mentioned that in order to perceive the footprints of those events in the CSB (the ‘Cosmic Sensitivity Barrier’ area referred to in detail in Chapter 1 of my book Karmasutra: The Karma of Sex), we would need to silence our brain. Instead of using the term ‘silencing the brain’, there is another way to express this idea. This is simply an alternative perspective. I call it the blood circulation perspective of meditation.

The essence of this perspective is that in order to increase spiritual receptivity, we must maintain maximum blood supply in the brain area called the CSB, as well as in the superfine blood vessels above the neck. This helps enhance the overall sensitivity of the mind. One important point to note is that for our spiritual awareness, the quality, quantity and other parameters of the blood supply must be higher in the cosmic sensitivity region than in other areas of the brain. Some drugs and various other methods often maintain blood supply in certain regions of the brain, but this is not sufficient for spiritual receptivity. For example, if I am constantly keeping accounts or monitoring my business profits and losses, there may be excellent blood flow to the parts of my brain associated with mathematics, calculations and memory, but this may not result in spiritual sensitivity.

Similarly, some people chew herbs, consume energy drinks, ghutka, tea or coffee (which we might refer to as 'stimulants') to keep the blood supply active in the head area. This might improve brain function and mental sharpness, often temporarily, but there is little evidence that spiritual receptivity will be enhanced. Some drugs of a psychedelic nature may create certain perceptual or sensory experiences that resemble spirituality, but this is not the same as true spiritual receptivity.

Engaging in strenuous exercise such as running provides excellent pumping action from the heart, sending blood to most corners of the body at greater pressure. This is beneficial for the body and for many brain functions such as logic, quantitative reasoning and memory. It also promotes overall immunity and good health. This is because many health disorders originate from inadequate blood supply to certain parts of the body.

However, this exercise regime does not always significantly improve the condition of the Cosmic Sensitivity area. This is because the CSB does not merely require a voluminous supply of blood at high pressure, as is often the case with athletes. It requires blood to be delivered with optimal pressure, flow and other specific parameters. These are not achieved through exercise alone, but rather through meditation and, to some extent, through calming prayer or chanting.

In other words, if too much blood flows into other areas of the brain or body, or if the blood is not delivered at the optimal pressure, flow and chemical composition, then the cosmic receptivity area is not nourished sufficiently to enhance spiritual sensitivity. Therefore, if we wish to work on spiritual receptivity and sharpen our intuition, it is beneficial to minimise unnecessary blood flow to other areas of the body in order to keep the spiritually receptive area of the brain well nourished.

Another factor that hampers smooth blood supply to the CSB area is stress. If we are constantly stressed, rushing to catch trains or to meet deadlines at work, this lifestyle disrupts the blood flow in the brain's receptivity area. We can reduce this stress to a large extent through exercise, yoga and similar practices. However, while these activities can neutralise the negative effects of stress, they do not always sufficiently nourish the CSB.

As mentioned in Karmasutra, if we lead a life in which we must conceal many aspects of our thoughts or actions from others, this results in a different composition of blood flow that does not support spiritual sensitivity. I have explained this in the book as ‘congruence’. In fact, this incongruence between our thoughts, words and deeds is another form of mild stress. For true spiritual progress and for high-quality blood flow, there should not be too great a difference between our thoughts, actions and words.

In addition to these minor effects, there are other broader factors that draw blood supply away from the head region. What are the most common areas of the body to which blood flow is redirected? First, if we enjoy rich food and eat heavy meals consisting of meats, fats, alcohol, soft drinks, proteins or high-calorie, high-carbohydrate dishes, our digestive system becomes highly active. A large volume of blood is redirected from the above-the-neck region to the various organs involved in digestion. This explains why many people feel sleepy after a heavy meal. Smoking and excessive alcohol intake also introduce toxins into the bloodstream, interfering with the quality and characteristics of the blood needed by the spiritual sensitivity area.

Another major activity that diverts blood flow is sexual activity. After intercourse, a significant amount of blood remains in and around the genital area for some time before it can be redirected to the brain to nourish the spiritual receptivity area. Some people suggest that Shirsasana (the headstand yoga pose) helps bring blood back to the head. Indeed, Shirsasana can be helpful due to the effects of gravity, but if it is followed by a heavy meal that includes alcohol or by sexual activity, the blood is quickly drawn back downwards.

Bathing in water that is too hot or too cold, and significantly different from body temperature, can also cause shifts in blood circulation. Cold water baths certainly have health benefits, including improved blood flow. I do not discount these benefits. However, for the novice spiritual seeker, such sudden shifts can disrupt blood circulation. For the more advanced seeker who has achieved a degree of mental equilibrium, cold river bathing is excellent due to its cleansing effects on a spiritual level.

Too much sensory stimulation can also draw blood away from the brain and towards the stimulated organ. For example, if we watch television or films for extended periods, the eyes will begin to demand increased blood flow. This is one reason why meditators often keep their eyes closed, to minimise light intake. Our eyes are the main gateway for receiving information about the material world. Keeping them open allows this information to enter and immediately activates the information processing centres of the brain, diverting blood away from the CSB area.

Of course, in practical life, it is not always possible to meditate or pray with closed eyes. If we are working or travelling in crowded trains, we may not want to draw attention or invite judgement from others. In such situations, a useful compromise is to keep the eyes slightly open. For example, one can open the eyes to about 80 percent. This gives the impression that our eyes are open while reducing light intake by 20 percent. Although this may seem a minor adjustment, such small changes matter to those who wish to maintain their spiritual sharpness. Similarly, engaging in passionate, intense conversations for long periods also redirects blood flow. If we become too focused on boosting or inflating our egos, other areas of the brain receive more blood, not the spiritual area. I hope to write another blog post soon about some techniques for reducing ego, as gathered from great practitioners.

Beyond all these factors, as we age, the finer blood vessels begin to lose their elasticity and suppleness. As a result, we may require longer meditation sessions to achieve the same level of receptivity.

All these efforts, both large and small, become worthwhile when our spiritual receptivity sharpens and we begin to feel the imprint of events in the spiritual or astral sphere. This enables us to take corrective measures to prevent or at least mitigate those negative events from repeating themselves in the material world.

Through this post, I am not suggesting that everyone must avoid enjoying good food, the company of friends, or sexual activity. However, if someone is a genuine spiritual seeker and is wondering why their progress feels limited, this article may offer some technical insight. As I mentioned in my previous blog, everything shared here is based on my personal understanding, derived from various direct and indirect sources. Please feel free to disagree or disregard it entirely.

©Staju Jacob, 2016.

Staju Jacob is the author of the path-breaking book Karmasutra The Karma of Sex, which deals with the karmic spirituality of consensual sexual actions. This book is available globally on various Amazon sites in Paperback and Kindle, Sony Kobo, Google books, Iphone Ibook etc.  He may be contacted on Twitter @KaRmasutraTKOS 

Do events happen first in the spiritual-astral realm?

I have written somewhat ‘controversial’ things in my book Karmasutra: The Karma of Sex, which has even led to some of my friends blocking me on WhatsApp or unfriending me on Facebook. Let me continue now and write some more ‘controversial’ thoughts on two questions someone recently asked me, namely: ‘Do events happen in our lives directly at the physical, material plane?’ and ‘Does our blood circulation have anything to do with spirituality?’ Needless to say, whatever is written below is my personal understanding, distilled from various direct and indirect sources. Please feel free to completely disagree with it or disregard it entirely. Due to a paucity of time, I will answer the first question in this post and the second question in another post, which I will put up in a few days.

As per my understanding, things first happen in the spiritual, non-physical world and are then repeated in our actual, physical, material world. For example, if a person is about to meet with an accident, it first happens in the spiritual-astral realm and then occurs in the real world. When something happens in the astral world, the same imprint is released into the physical world.

To help us understand this better, let me use an analogy from an earlier era namely,  that of the old, non-digital camera and film negative. When a photograph was clicked, there was some sort of impression on the negative. However, if we did not want the picture to be developed, we could expose the negative to sunlight or strong light and the picture would be erased. Hence, although the event was recorded and the impression made on the negative, the picture would never develop because the impression was erased by exposure to light.

A similar connection exists between events happening at an astral (or spiritual, non-material) level and at the material level. If a person is about to meet with an accident, the event impression first happens at the astral level. It then manifests at the material, physical level. Between the astral or spiritual impression and the actual event, there is a time lag, during which the negative outcome can be prevented, unless it is strictly mandated by a person’s strong karmic fate or mission on earth.

To do so, we must be aware of what has already happened at the spiritual-astral level. One way is by consulting genuine astrologers or psychics who are able to pick up this information from the spiritual realm. Some of us are fortunate enough to see glimpses of forthcoming events, poised to replicate at the material level, in the form of symbolic dreams. Most of us are not.

At this stage, it is pertinent to note that I am not referring to distant future predictions, but rather to events that have already occurred at the astral level. There is a subtle distinction between predicting the future and receiving information about events that have already taken place in the astral world. Although for the uninitiated both may seem like ‘future predictions’, to those who understand these matters, they are quite different.

Let me illustrate with an analogy. If I am waiting for a friend who lives about 20 miles away to come to my house for lunch, I might ask him a month in advance and he might say he plans to visit. This is somewhat like a prediction of the future through astrology or another method, where events are tentatively scheduled. However, various circumstances may arise in the meantime that alter the plan. On the other hand, if the same friend calls me on the day of his visit and says he is already halfway through the journey, there is a much greater likelihood that his arrival is imminent. I now know he is going to reach soon, unless something drastic intervenes. This is akin to an event that has already occurred at the astral level where it is impending and simply a matter of time before it replicates at the material plane.

Returning to the idea of perceiving what has already taken place in the astral realm, it is possible for each of us to gradually develop this ability. What usually happens is that the subtle impressions of events occurring in the spiritual-astral world are received in the cosmic receptivity area of the brain (which I have referred to as the CSB in my book Karmasutra: The Karma of Sex). However, since our minds are filled with too much ‘noise’ to perceive these subtle signals consciously, we remain unaware of what has occurred at a spiritual level. We only become aware of the event (for example, the accident) when it unfolds in the physical world.

How can we tune our minds to receive those very subtle vibrations of future events? The simplest way is through meditation. For those not trained in meditation, prayer is another means. The key is to enhance the sensitivity and sharpness of our minds by silencing them from within, so that even subtle vibrations from the spiritual realm can reach us. In my next post, I will elaborate further on this idea of ‘silencing the mind’ from the perspective of blood flow to the brain.

©Staju Jacob, 2016.

Staju Jacob is the author of the path-breaking book Karmasutra The Karma of Sex, which deals with the karmic spirituality of consensual sexual actions. This book is available globally on various Amazon sites in Paperback and Kindle, Sony Kobo, Google books, Iphone Ibook etc.  He may be contacted on Twitter @KaRmasutraTKOS 

Contours of Compassionate Capitalism: Executive compensation levels

In my book KaRmasutra: The Karma of Sex, I wrote about the framework of Compassionate Capitalism (in Chapter 3 of the book). Some of my readers got back to me and said it is a bit idealistic. Some of them said that the fuel for capitalism is greed, and that when we remove greed, the edifice of capitalism will crumble like a pack of cards. Others mentioned that spiritual leaders strive to be poor anyway, and therefore the spiritually inclined would not want to be associated with a business in any case.

Let me start with the last argument first. I have heard a similar argument about politics. People have said that politics is a dirty game meant for the power-hungry, and that decent people should stay away from it. But these days, more and more people have realised that when decent people stay away from politics, the political climate in a country degrades. Even if a few decent, spiritually grounded people enter politics, the quality of political discourse improves substantially. Voters start to have a choice if they want to vote differently.

In a similar way, people without excessive greed must get into business. This is not a spiritual paradox. Those who have read the Bhagavad Gita can vouch that it does not prohibit people from engaging in business or trade, as long as it is done without undue attachment to money (greed). The Bible also says that the labourer is worthy of his hire. The Bible does not say that those who seek to enter the kingdom of God must not ask for remuneration. Nor does it say that the labourer must give away his product or labour free of charge. However, the Bible does warn against greed and obsession with material riches.

As the book KaRmasutra: The Karma of Sex (in Chapter 3) explains, giving away something free is not always desirable. In fact, there are many disadvantages to giving things away free (charity). If I stand by the side of a busy road and distribute apples free of charge, many people will take an apple even though they have no need of one, thus depriving those who really do. Very often, things which are obtained free are not valued and are casually thrown away or discarded. In terms of karma, when we give something for free, we place the person who has received it in karmic obligation to us. If I have given medicine to someone without accepting any remuneration, I have put the receiver in karmic debt to me, which needs to be repaid in this life or the next. Hence, for all these reasons, it is desirable to charge a reasonable, ethical price for any product. This is the way to do ethical business, and there is nothing spiritually wrong in being a businessman.

As explained in my book with several examples, negative karma accumulates when the price of a product is rapacious. When the price is set unrealistically high so that the CEOs, executives or owners of businesses make millions in bonuses and profit shares, it is greed that drives the business. When a retail chain sources a dozen bananas from Colombia for the equivalent of 25 pence and then sells each banana in the UK for 50 pence (that is, around £6 for the dozen), there is likely to be a profit margin of around 80 to 85 percent, even after all expenses are deducted. Is this a spiritually ethical profit margin? (The example and the numbers I have quoted are not plucked from my imagination, but are close to reality.) Why cannot the poor farmer in Colombia be paid a much better price for his efforts in growing the banana, while reducing the profit margins? Similarly, why cannot the lower-level employee in the corporation be paid a better salary?

In today’s post, the focus is more on top executive compensation levels, which is one aspect of the compassionate capitalism framework. In many large corporations today, the take-home salary (including bonuses, perks, incentives, value of shares, and so on) is more than 100 to 150 times the salary given to their lowest paid staff. In other words, while the receptionist or the person at the till in a shop may be making £28,000, the CEO takes home more than £2.8 million per annum. (And this is a conservative estimate. A USA Today article says that in 2011, the median CEO annual pay of S&P’s companies was $9.6 million, or around £7 million. A recent Guardian article about executive compensation levels mentions that in 2015 the top bosses of the UK’s public listed companies earned an average of £5.5 million.)

Do the CEOs of corporations in the UK and US need to take 100 to 200 times the salary of the lowest paid employee in a company or corporation?

What is the karmically ethical compensation level of the CEO? Instead of making vague exhortations, I believe the time has come to develop a more actionable model. I would go with the idea that every layer of hierarchy should restrict itself to a maximum of 10 percent higher remuneration than the previous level, with the lowest-level employee’s salary as the base level in a company. This, in my view, is the karmically ethical course of action. Hence, if the person at the till in the supermarket is at the lowest level and has a take-home annual salary of £20,000, then the next layer of hierarchy – the supervisor – should take home an annual salary of £22,000 and no more. Even if the company has 15 levels in its hierarchy, the person sitting at the top will not take home more than £75,000 per annum (including bonuses, incentives and so on).

There are various advantages to this system. Firstly, it reduces the pay gap between different hierarchy levels and creates a more empathy-driven company. The CEO does not live in a fully owned 12-bedroom mansion while their employee five layers down in the hierarchy rents a studio apartment. This lower income gap empowers employees, encourages participation, reduces intimidation, and fosters closeness.

The second advantage is that if the top executives want to increase their own compensation, they will have to increase the base salary of the lowest paid employee. In other words, the system does not cap the CEO's compensation level, but only caps the percentage difference in compensation between successive hierarchy levels to 10 percent. If the top person in the company wants to take home a cool £1 million yearly compensation, no one stops them – but the lowest level employee must then be paid a cool £264,000 per annum (assuming a 15-level hierarchy).

In my opinion, this is a reasonable system for businesses that wish to operate ethically. If CEOs or top executives are paid substantially more than this calculation allows, then, in my opinion, the company has moved into the bandwidth of greed. We are creating ego-driven CEOs who think of themselves as demi-gods, separated from the ‘common’ employees by millions. This also creates the obsession in others to reach this ‘top executive’ level by hook or by crook.

People who receive indecently large amounts of compensation are no longer buying things they necessarily need, but things they use to show off and build their ego. Too much money often leads to enormous amounts of waste and excess consumption. At the cost of the global environment, billions worth of products are produced to sustain the health, comfort and leisure of those with excessive compensations, entertain them and their families, and fill their homes with gadgets they use infrequently, if at all. As often happens with the scions of oil-rich Arab sheikhs, extreme wealth leads to extreme boredom, which in turn drives the search for the next ‘high’ – in goods, drugs or experiences – many of which may not be positive.

This greed-driven capitalism must stop, or at least reduce. Otherwise, more and more parts of the Earth will become unliveable in the coming decades due to the harmful impact of our rapacious consumption and waste generation on the planet’s climate. Perhaps the human race may look to colonise other planets and move there en masse, but the root of the problem will still remain.

How do we turn a new leaf in executive compensation? I think the government making laws may not be the only answer. This drive for values must come from the very top of companies that claim to follow business ethics. The CEOs of companies must begin to apply this model to their own compensations voluntarily and publicly. The entire organisation must adopt the principle of a maximum 10 percent salary hike between successive hierarchy levels. This is the first step in compassionate capitalism. (As an aside, I do believe that even the CEOs of charitable organisations have the right to take karmically ethical salaries. In fact, efforts should be made to reduce the gap between the compensations in charitable organisations, government institutions, and private companies at similar hierarchy levels.)

The second step is to use part of the savings from reduced compensations to bring down prices of products and services, even when there are customers willing to pay high prices (often due to limited options), especially for staple products such as food and basic transportation services. Another part of the amount saved by reducing compensation levels can be paid to governments in return for their firm commitments to specific welfare or benefit schemes. For example, free libraries can be built, bridges linking remote areas can be constructed, more police officers can be recruited, roads can be widened, and more support can be given to the needy.

Of course, in the long run, we need to shape and guide society. We must train our children in this model of capitalism without greed. We must teach entrepreneurs not only the principles and practices of sound business, but how to practise compassionate capitalism.

There may be questions about the model proposed here. What if the salesman makes more money than his boss due to selling more and earning direct commission or incentives? What if a certain middle level of hierarchy earns more than a 10 percent difference due to overtime? Does the model require tweaking in the case of relatively flat companies? These nuances will perhaps need to be addressed in another post, without compromising the ethical foundation of the model.

This is just a sounding board for thoughts and ideas, a starting point for debate. The model and system proposed here can be tweaked and modified, but somewhere we must begin the discussion on the contours of compassionate capitalism, with executive or CEO compensation being just one area of focus.

We owe this to our future on this planet.

 

©Staju Jacob, 2016.

Staju Jacob is the author of path-breaking book Karmasutra The Karma of Sex, which deals with the karmic spirituality of consensual sexual actions. This book is available globally on various Amazon sites in Paperback , Kindle, Sony Kobo, Google books, Iphone Ibook etc.  He can be contacted on Twitter @KaRmasutraTKOS

The Nature of Evil

When we learn of groups like ISIS committing extreme violence, including beheadings and systematic rape, we experience profound revulsion and question the perpetrators' humanity. While we label such acts 'evil', its fundamental nature remains unclear. Is evil controlled by a powerful entity like Christianity's devil or demons? Or does it originate from Islam's Saitan? In Hinduism, irrational evil is often embodied by rakshasas. This blog explores whether these concepts represent the same phenomenon.

 

Based on my understanding, informed by interactions with a range of spiritual leaders and the study of relevant literature, I am of the view that evil (or forces commonly referred to as the ‘forces of darkness’) can indeed manifest in powerful and tangible ways. While the initial part of my reflection may appear dramatic or irrational, I would encourage readers to continue through to the end in order to gain a more nuanced and comprehensive appreciation of the nature of evil. A partial reading may leave one with an exaggerated or distorted perception of what ‘evil’ truly entails.

 

One commonly recognised form of evil is the highly dramatized portrayal we encounter in films such as The Exorcist. While this depiction may appear sensational, such events can indeed occur. A human being may become entirely possessed by a demonic or darker force, serving as a medium to demonstrate the reach and influence of such entities. Though occurrences of this nature are far rarer than popular media might suggest, they are not entirely fictitious. Several notable works by experienced practitioners in this field, such as Malachi Martin and Gabriele Amorth, document these phenomena.

 

In Hinduism, while there is no central figure akin to Satan, exorcisms are still performed by skilled occult practitioners and tantrics to dispel malevolent forces believed to possess individuals under specific conditions. Nevertheless, these are rare events. More often than not, what is perceived as possession is, in reality, a manifestation of psychological or psychiatric disorders. Still, rarity does not equate to impossibility. Possession, when it does occur, is a profoundly significant event in a person's life and, as various texts suggest, may even be determined prior to birth. Furthermore, certain environmental conditions must be conducive for such dark forces to enter.

 

A second, and more unsettling, version of evil is the notion of direct incarnation. While we may comfort ourselves with the belief that every human is a divine creation, a sentiment that holds truth, it is also conceivable that darker forces are occasionally permitted to send their own emissaries into the world. These incarnations occur within the laws of time and space, often to fulfil certain cosmic functions. In the Mahabharata, for instance, Kunti uses sacred mantras to invite divine beings into her womb, resulting in the birth of the Pandavas. Similarly, it may be possible, under certain circumstances, to create the conditions for darker entities to incarnate. When we study the lives and atrocities of individuals such as Idi Amin, Hitler, or Abu Bakr al-Baghdadi, we find compelling reasons to consider whether these individuals were not mere humans, but incarnations of malevolent forces.

 

The third and more common manifestation of evil, in my view, occurs when malevolent energies hover like an invisible yet potent cloud over a specific population or geographic region for a designated period. This is not accidental but permitted by a cosmic balance, an agreement, so to speak, between divine and dark forces. During such times, entire populations may fall under the sway of fear, anger, and hatred, and rational, compassionate behaviour is temporarily suspended. While a few key figures may be more directly influenced by these forces, the true corruption lies in the atmosphere, the emotional and energetic climate of the region.

 

Consider the Rwandan genocide. Over the course of several weeks, groups of Hutus set up roadblocks to identify and murder Tutsis, including women and children, often neighbours with whom they had previously lived peacefully. The descent into such inhumanity seemed to erase all moral compass. Similarly, in Nazi Germany, ordinary citizens working within the regime facilitated the extermination of millions of Jews, often without any apparent sense of wrongdoing. During the 1984 riots in North India, Hindus who had long coexisted peacefully with their Sikh neighbours suddenly turned violent, committing unspeakable atrocities.

 

This form of evil is recognisable when otherwise reasonable individuals begin expressing themselves through language steeped in fear, hatred, and resentment. This shift signals the growing influence of dark energies.

 

Indeed, in cases of direct incarnations of evil, as described in the second version, the surrounding region also becomes infected, much like the scenario described above. Just as certain soil, moisture, and temperature conditions allow particular plants or weeds to thrive, so too do fear, hatred, and anger create fertile ground for dark forces. In fact, when a community emits strong negative vibrations, such as fear, suspicion, and rage, it can act as a beacon for malevolent entities to concentrate their efforts in that region.

In ancient Hindu scriptures, rakshasas are often portrayed as masters of maya (illusion) and powerful sorcery. In areas of social unrest, dark forces often sow rumours or dangerous thoughts which are then picked up by human intuition and acted upon. For instance, during the India–Pakistan riots, certain Muslim rioters, upon encountering Hindu men claiming to be Muslim, devised the cruel practice of checking for circumcision as proof of identity. These kinds of ideas are not always born from deliberate human reasoning. They are, I believe, seeded by evil forces in the environment and picked up by those susceptible to them.

 

What, then, is to be done by those living in areas where evil is palpably present? The answer is similar to how one responds to extreme cold. One keeps warm. This may involve sitting by a fire, wearing warm clothing, or lighting a small flame to create a zone of heat. Likewise, in total darkness, the first instinct is to light a candle. In the presence of powerful evil, the imperative is to remain connected to the divine source, through meditation if possible. For those untrained in meditation, sincere prayer to cosmic divine forces offers a viable alternative. The goal is to remain spiritually protected and grounded, allowing time to pass while refraining from drawing unnecessary attention.

 

As shown in the film Schindler’s List, even in the heart of immense evil, small acts of light can exist. Oskar Schindler, at great personal risk, saved hundreds of Jewish lives. While such heroism may not be possible for everyone, staying aligned with divine principles is itself an act of resistance and protection.

 

Interestingly, great spiritual masters such as the Buddha rarely spoke about evil in the personalised terms seen in other traditions. This omission long puzzled me. Unlike in the Bible, where Jesus casts out demons and confronts Satan directly, Eastern sages focused on meditation and attaining nirvana, which is liberation from the cycle of birth and death. In these traditions, there is less emphasis on external forces like God or Satan, and more on inner transformation.

 

After deep contemplation, I arrived at what I believe is a consistent explanation. At higher levels of spiritual understanding, evil does not exist as a tangible force. What exists is ignorance. Lest this sound like a contradiction to all I have stated thus far, allow me to clarify.

 

Consider the analogy of fire and ice. Both are extreme sensations. Fire burns, ice freezes. Fire can inflict pain, and so can ice. But while fire is generated by fuel, heat, and oxygen, cold has no independent existence. It is simply the absence of heat. Likewise, darkness is not a substance in itself. It is the absence of light. The deeper the darkness, the greater the absence of even the smallest light.

 

Thus, the so-called forces of darkness or evil are, in essence, entities that arise where spiritual light and wisdom are absent. When true insight shines forth, bringing discernment, compassion, and clarity, these dark influences dissipate. This is echoed in the Upanishadic mantra, Asato Ma Sad Gamaya, Tamaso Ma Jyotir Gamaya, "Lead us from untruth to truth, from darkness to light." These verses do not refer to devils or demons but rather to ignorance and enlightenment. Evil, at the highest spiritual level, is ignorance.

 

And yet, even if evil is fundamentally a lack of light, its effects in the material and psychological realms are undeniably real. Returning to the analogy, while cold is simply the absence of heat, the effects of extreme cold, such as frostbite, hypothermia, and disorientation, are painfully tangible. The same is true of spiritual darkness. Though it may stem from ignorance, its impact on individuals and societies can be deeply destructive.

 

This is why the earlier parts of this reflection must be read in conjunction with this understanding. While the metaphysical truth may be that evil is a deficiency rather than a force, its manifestations in our world are real, often catastrophic.

 

In this light, the Western conception of an all-evil Satan pitted against an all-good God appears, to my mind, overly dualistic and dramatised, a product of the binary thinking common in Western theology and popular culture. Films often delineate clear heroes and villains, good and evil. Yet, human experience, as we know, is rarely so absolute. Most people, and most events, exist in shades of grey.

 

From this perspective, Hinduism’s treatment of evil as ignorance, or a deviation from divine light, seems both more realistic and more compassionate. Even beings like the rakshasas are not beyond redemption. The demon-king Ravana, for instance, is often remembered as a great scholar and devout meditator who acquired many boons through penance and discipline. This reflects the inherent fairness of the cosmic order. Even those aligned with darkness can acquire merits through effort.

 

What emerges is a hopeful view. Even the most misguided beings are not irredeemable. Spiritual light, once perceived, can illuminate even the darkest corners. As the ancient Sanskrit prayer reminds us, Lokah Samastah Sukhino Bhavantu, "May all beings, everywhere, be happy." The promise of peace, joy, and growth is not denied even to those once allied with darkness. All may return, in time, to the path of light.

©Staju Jacob, 2016.

Staju Jacob is the author of path-breaking book Karmasutra The Karma of Sex, which deals with the karmic spirituality of consensual sexual actions. This book is available globally on various Amazon sites in Paperback , Kindle, Sony Kobo, Google books, Iphone Ibook etc.  He can be contacted on Twitter @KaRmasutraTKOS

                             An LGBT Story : An Epiphany

I’ve always believed that travelling, and when possible, living and working in a foreign country, broadens our perspectives and challenges our views on important issues. What follows is a personal story about how my understanding of lesbian relationships was transformed by a real-life encounter.

Even while living and working across various parts of India, I was aware that some people have different preferences when it comes to their sexual partners. Intellectually, I accepted that same-gender attraction was both real and valid. However, about ten years ago, my perception of same-sex relationships, particularly those involving gay men, was heavily influenced by stereotypical portrayals in Bollywood films, where they were often shown as overly effeminate. Some of my impressions also came from mythological figures such as Shikhandi in the Mahabharata. Lesbian characters were scarcely represented. The only significant portrayal I recall was in Fire, the Shabana Azmi film, where lesbianism was depicted not as a natural orientation but as a desperate alternative for women let down by heterosexual marriage.

Now, to the story. This happened a few years ago during my early days in the UK. I was on a train from London Victoria, heading somewhere in southwest London. Sitting beside me was a beautiful woman who appeared to be South Asian, although she had a fair complexion. South Asians living abroad often develop a knack for recognising one another, and I guessed she was either North Indian or Pakistani.

She wore a lovely nose ring and had dark eyes and long black hair. Her colourful top had handmade beadwork around the neckline, a style often worn by Indian women or by Western travellers returning from India. I estimated that she was in her late twenties or early thirties.

She smiled at me, and I smiled back. I noticed she was reading a travel guide about Turkey, so I casually asked, “A good book on Turkey?” She replied that she and her partner were planning a holiday there. In the UK, the word partner is commonly used instead of husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend. It’s intentionally neutral with regard to both marital status and gender.

We began chatting. I shared stories of family holidays, and we discussed our work. She held a Master’s degree in counselling and worked with a well-known charity, or NGO as we would say in India. As I had guessed, her parents were from Delhi. She had spent part of her childhood in Delhi and continued to visit India regularly. She loved Indian festivals like Diwali and Holi, enjoyed Indian food, and appreciated traditional clothing. Although not particularly religious, she said she visited temples on special occasions.

During the conversation, I mentioned that I had a daughter at the time. She responded that she also had a baby. We then moved on to what our partners did for a living. I was a little surprised when she said, “My partner is a beautician and does beauty treatments.” In the UK, this is perfectly ordinary. I had seen women driving taxis, men working as nurses, women serving as firefighters, and even female prison officers working in male facilities. So her statement didn’t strike me as particularly unusual.

Still, I wanted to clarify. I asked casually, “So what’s his speciality? Haircuts? Facials? General treatments?”
She looked a little surprised. “Oh, you got me wrong,” she said. “It’s not a he, it’s a she.”
Noticing the flicker of surprise on my face, she asked with a smile, “Are you shocked? Did I share too much?” Then she giggled. “It’s a bit unusual to share all this with someone on a train.” She added that her partner was from Karnataka.

I hesitated slightly, then asked, “You said you have a baby?”
She giggled again and said, “Yes, it’s not so difficult these days.”

I knew that many lesbian couples have children using donor sperm and IVF. Still, I chose not to ask further questions. Even though the train was fairly quiet, not packed like a Mumbai local, it didn’t seem like the right setting to go deeper into personal details.

Soon, the train arrived at my stop. We exchanged smiles and goodbyes. That short journey stayed with me. It became a kind of turning point. While I had accepted the idea of same-gender relationships at an intellectual level back in India, this encounter dismantled a number of assumptions I hadn’t realised I still held. I was still in the early stages of adjusting to life in the UK, and I was in the process of unlearning and relearning many things.

Some of the myths that were quietly broken for me:

• Lesbians are exotic women who wear tattoos, do drugs, and dress or behave like men.

• Lesbians are usually white Western women. Indian women are rarely lesbians, except perhaps in extreme or unusual circumstances, as portrayed in Fire.

• Lesbians do not want children, because they are somehow not ‘normal’.

That conversation stayed in my memory for years. Just a few days ago, I saw the same woman again on another train. This time, the carriage was crowded, with many people standing between us. We made eye contact and smiled. She seemed to giggle slightly, perhaps remembering our earlier exchange. The train moved slowly, filling up even more at each stop. When the crowd finally thinned, I looked again in her direction, but she had already left. I never saw which station she had got off at.

--© Staju Jacob

(Some minor details have been omitted/changed to protect the identity of the person concerned).